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But the truth is there are certain universal truths that explain why a man will pick another woman over you. Why did he do that? Was it him? Was it something you did? What if you could go back and change something - would things have turned out differently? I can also tell you - honestly - why I did those things and what makes a man stick around for the long term. Please be open and honest with yourself as you answer them….
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You only get 6 cd's that last about 30 min. I thought there would be more to it. As I said in the title Not impressed! Still enjoying it. Sometimes I just read sections. Good info. I love this book. Very eye opening for me. Now it all makes sense when dealing with men and dating. One person found this helpful. Not every "expert" resonated with me, some even contradicted each other but I listened with an open mind and learned a lot, especially from "Paul".
There was a lot of good information in here! One of the CD's in this set was scratched and therefore I was unable to listen to it. I expected to purchase a product that was in working condition and was very disappointed and felt ripped off.
Since the item was damaged, I would like to return this for a full refund but am not sure how to do that.
I put off buying this for a long time, until I found a used set here on Amazon for a good price. The program was helpful and it taught me a lot. If you find that you connect with one or more of the speakers, you can then study their work in further detail.
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Christian asks questions that keep the talk on-track and that provide information helpful to his female audience. He teaches women how challenges are viewed from the MALE perspective very helpful , and guides us to help ourselves attain what we seek: It's kind of like having a big brother to turn to for advice. While we women cannot change men, it's nice to be able to learn how they think so we can better understand them. Really one of the dumbest books I have ever read. He rambles on and on He obviously hates women.
Hates them. The whole book is full of anecdotes about how women are annoying to men. He gives no practical advice about relationships, just whines and complains about all the things men meaning him find irritating about women.
He makes men sound like complete and utter tools. If a man feels the way this man feels Run screaming like your hair is on fire. I realized that, as a guy, I could shine a light on what men think and why we behave the way we do — giving you an enormous advantage in dating and relationships. I read your daily emails religiously. As a 37 year old woman I knew I needed help.
I want to let you know that by reading your daily words of advice, I listened, corrected my mistakes and landed an amazing man. I have found fulfillment and still read your emails daily to ensure I am staying the course. Thank you for helping to make me a better me, and for teaching me ways to better communicate with men. Thank you for also sending your emails with helpful hints! I am about to get the lasting attraction series.
It sounds like a great program. Because of your book I have changed my attitude from needy to relaxed. I always use to Point my finger at someone else but then I had to do some serious navel gazing.
This is really what your program comes down to. And the answer is that he was too keen on me. That part i can understand. Now, the philosophy of CC or whoever he is could just work in this situation. What is NOT acceptable though is putting all the onus on the woman in this process.
I mean one of the insecurities is that i have a higher status job than him! That is societies fault, not mine for getting an education and career, so why should i have to spend time and effort soothing his ego about it? I was really considering getting the e-book and I went on a search to find if for free out there, when I landed ont his sight.
So glad I did! Thanks Again! Thanks to everyone who posted their comments about this jerk! I did get the e-book and after reading half way through I thought are girls realy that pathetic. Of course not we are who we are.
Men also have to realize we are very emotinal people and we have the right to tell a man what we feel. Cool girl or not. This is just one mans opinion on what he wants from a girl. I have many Male friends and not one of them was as bad as this guy. He gets women because he strikes at their emotions.. All i can say is that after reading some of his material I began to observe men and talk to my good guy friends about some of the suggestions..
Talk about disgusting. I am currently dating a guy and everything was going swimmingly until I asked him to have dinner with myself and another couple, then he freaked about being trapped and committing to couples activities etc… Whatever, guy has issues. Then of course he pulls back. The fact that he is the first 5 or so pages on the search engines, all blogs, ezine articles and what not, pointing to his site. What a scam artist. After reading your blog, I feel once again empowered.
There are too many men out there ready to do the latter. What stands out to me most about these charlatans is that they ALL dispense the same message—how to have a faux relationship. Whatever men may want or not want, most women want to be in a relationship for the sake of companionship, support, emotional intimacy, romance. In short, we want to experience a genuine connection with someone. What these misleading programs teach is that you not only have to adopt behaviors and traits that may be alien to who you are but that you also should never expect to have that genuine relationship that you long for.
I ask you, what woman would want a relationship like that? Yet somehow these fools sell their shtick to woman after woman. I wonder if the popularity of this drivel can be partly blamed on the discrimination single women face. Obviously there are exceptions but it is a reality of life that people men and women with the above description have more opportunities to be in a relationship than someone boring, not fun, emotionally unstable with lots of insecurities.
Most attractive people have LOTS of options.
Well the last part is not something I would say to a guy. So what about that? What they were probably meaning was: I should not always have to be this way to get someone. We all want to marry ANY guy who crosses our paths and immediately procreate. Apparently, in relationships, women can do nothing right. As far as I know, the whole point of this dating and relationship thing is for there to be 2 people. I once picked up a Cosmo while waiting in line at the pharmacy. Some gems from that article: Never wear a lose fitting dress or flats -do not mention your job, ever.
Anything a woman says is just boring to a guy. It sounds like I am exaggerating, but these are almost literal quotes from this article. You know, I was just thinking. The most needy, emotionally unbalanced, desperate, insecure women I know are married.
I agree that much of what CC writes about focuses on getting the woman to assume virtually all responsibility for the success of failure of the relationship. His book was so simplistic and full of grammatical mistakes, it was laughable! They are there, ladies, and have always been there.
We just need to stop swallowing the premise that relationships are all the responsibilty of the female — and wake up to the fact that many men are just creeps! Did CC check the divorce statistics in this country? Your comment made me feel very strong! You reminded me what the successful relationship is!
Thank you Rachel. Gosh, I usually would not feel like commenting, but I think too many women in this thread are doing harm to themselves by simplifying things and running into a wall just because it is in the opposite direction. I still want to add that I absolutely of disagree with any kind of credit card fraud. I am not a cold man, I am reasonable, well educated and confront my own emotions, and I could still not believe that this book made me understand so well why I lost interest in some girls when I was unable to explain it.
I recognized so many situations I had been in and I somehow felt less guilty by seeing that those women simply broke rules that applied to a majority of men.
I get that many want to take me as an example for the blame being put on women, but I am not. Men and women both make mistakes. After all, being interesting and unpredictable just means: To say that the women this book praises are just cold fictional creatures destined to live an unhappy life is an insult to millions of great women out there, some of which you all know and have as your friends.
Some women here seemed to assume that the proposals of action described the new roles they would have to play, while it just explained: It is not an explanation how to be a bitch, a slut or some heartless creature, it just explains what men really seek in women. If you are telling a friend of yours not to talk about marriage on the first date or not to call a guy ten times a day, are you then feeling guilty because you are telling her to hide her personality?????? Most probably no, you rather think that her insecurities are not her entire personality and that the guy should first get to know what she really is about, because women are more than just their insecurities, just as men are.
Men are humans too and know women have insecurities, just as you know that men have them. But nobody of any sex wants to have those thrown in your face before you get to know the rest of the person.
By the way, it sounds hypocritical if some women seem shocked by the idea of differences between male and female thinking, while they would still not date a guy who behaves like a woman. In general terms: The mistake may be the incompatibility of those two personalities or the lack of understanding how the other sex functions. Just my basic message, not all of you need this book, but the more you protest the more you seem not to understand that at least his explanations are right.
I found it interesting, but am glad I got it for free for it just satisfied my curiosity. Well Mr. You make some good points.
Is it me or is Christian Carter of "Catch Him and Keep Him" the devil? - Quirkyalone
I am curious, now almost a year later, are you still single? As you said, we all have insecurities. H , I like your balanced style. What you say feels like a thoughtful, rational yet intuitive grasp of the heterosexual condition. Overtime as I grew to understand the true value of self awareness, mindfulness and growth I came to understand that the truth is — as we all know- I can only control my self.
This includes my independence , my emotions, my insecurities, my self worth and love , my boundaries , passion, ambitions etc. This in turn has made me so much happier and more fulfilled. You know what else? Now , my 4 year relationship — which has been marked repeatedly by pock marks of spats, moving in and out together, brooding arguments and sometimes even bouts of mutual sheer despair has turned on its heel.
It was through CCs emails that I realized I me, myself, personally had work to do. Why did the man whom I cherish and adore, the man who did so much for me feel this way?
Why, when I was constantly pouring and giving and giving and telling and giving more not understand? So I just stopped , had a think and came home to myself. My relationship with myself switched gears and so did every other aspect of my life. So yeah, knock him all you want but please , regardless, take the time and suffer the hardship and joys of journeying to become your highest self. Know yourself , express yourself and when your happiness is so strong that it pours out of you like sunlight?
The Universe will smile with you and you will only generate energy and love. That is called being a real human being. Hence, I am a quirkyalone. Christian Carter is too depressing for us to read.
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He wants to strip you of all that you are and change your gender. I will admit, I have read about four of those emails. All I am am single, 45 and had been seeing someone for a little while as really good friends.
There is no emotion in our relationship, absolutely no romance. It had sucked for me more than him I believe but we both have had issues that our friendship has helped to work out. It takes time and patience and who knows whether or not we will grow into something more, but my point is, I have learned a great deal from this guy.
I learned what kind of man I need in my life. He lacks affection. Not the man for me. At least there is one thing that comes with age—no one out there, including this dating guru, knows anymore about anything than you do. And if you have those issues, spend a few hundred dollars and see a professional therapist. Other than that, trust your own instincts. Thank you for all the thoughts shared here — even those that I feel were taken way out of context having experienced all sides of this discussion.
Does he drivel on and on take words to say a point that could be conveyed in words , sure. Are there things he says that just feel like too broad a generalization t times, sure. They probably just had some internal issues in getting it handled.
I actually applaud him for the emails he sends as he is actually giving advice within them and not just sending out long sales letters which a lot more other marketing styles do.
THAT will be a turbo-charged magnet for a man in your life. Good luck to everyone, I DO wish for all of us to find love. Its there in abundance, if we allow ourselves to look at it that way instead of focusing on the negative. Its in understanding these type of things that help us to not react in ways that will then push someone away.
I appreciate and embrace these ideas that can act as tools for understanding and guide us into allowing something real to happen and to find love. I read Mr. As women, we must cultivate within ourselves our better natures — being the best for ourselves first — because being authentic, confident, not afraid of our own virtue and assured in our self worth will be what attracts a real man of quality into our lives.
I wholeheartedly agree with everything you have said. Some points make perfect sense and his insight into the male psyche is astounding at times. In this day and age, courtship and what women and men expect of each other in courtship has changed.
And not for the best. Women have lost a lot. Carter basically preaches that women should have more self-respect, be more selective with the men the lets into her life, refrain from dating jerks and once in a relationship, understand the male psyche in order to make it work. There is nothing wrong with that.
There is nothing wrong with a bit of empathy, of putting yourself in your partners position and from that position, reaching out. Should women do all the work? As for Carter charging for his materials… we all have to eat. Christian Carter is legit. His prices are fair. There are a lot of negative posters here, but you also gotta take your own personality into consideration. I think not. Your narrowmindedness is staggering, distasteful and irresponsible and your aversion to women as equals or valuable at all, obvious and repulsive, but no threat to me..
Thanks for your comment! Although, for the Medium class American maybe Carter is revolutionary! He speaks as if men are dogs to train and catch. I just had a bad break up which i why I looked into him, but his stuff is bullshit, and any guy would tell you so. Just be yourself, dont be or act stupid, and a man will love you for you, not because you are tricking him into it. I am a high school art teacher, and I am constantly helping kids male and female to express themselves, celebrate their individuality, and nurture a healthy viewpoint of themselves.
Very true! I also contemplated ordering it, but when I read about the subscription thought better of it. I wonder how healthy his relationships are…. I think he is a savy marketing scammer. I mistakenly clicked on his ad. It preys on your insecurities. The writing style is so similar, I suspect they are the same person. I got a headache reading his crap that never seems to make a point. Yep … you are right. One and the same person. Predator at its best. Good luck. I was curious, gave him my email address.
Suckered in and now bailing out fast. Love me as I am or leave me alone thanks. I kept making the same stupid mistakes over and over in relationships. Some guys were nice, some assholes, it didnt matter, they all ended.
I had a great career, many years of transformational therapy under my belt, and still it seemed, no ability to move past the initial part of the relationship. I applied much of what he said and find myself now engaged with a great guy. My man dotes on me, adores me and loves all of me.
I am more self expressed and self confident in this relationship than any other. What CC says is downright uncomfortable and seemingly anti-feminist, but if done correctly, he offers great tools that work.
I only bought the ebook, which is a fair price, and did not go for anything else. His marketing could use an upgrade. And I do not agree that he says to put on an act, quite the opposite, he teaches to be yourself, to speak your truth from the get go in a confident and calm way. To stand up for what you want, and if you are not met to move on. Where is the problem?? I have enjoyed the programs. I have six of them in addition to the ebook.
But some of the comments I read above are obsurd. For instance that females are supposed to be quiet and play hard to get. His entire program on Communication Secrets is on communication, and it never implied keeping quiet. I think he has done a great job of putting into words the feelings and details that are obviously more common that I realized.
The programs were expensive, and that is my only complaint. That and the fact that women are the ones who care about relationships to purchase them. Guys act as if all they have to do is breathe. I wish Christian could make some comments on that. Hello, im really curious as to what program did u enjoy the most? I know it depends of what particular situation is going on in ur life.
They are pricey and thats why i cant afford to buy them all. Now if a few of you would just line up to take off my hands the men who literally chase and stalk me all the time because something about all of the above attracts them like fruit flies. I found his book very intriguing. I will raise hell if I do. However, I am all for chicks learning to change.
I think women are way too emotional and annoying, and even though I am one. I honeslty have to say I have experienced this first hand…everything I read made sense to me. Was no real epiphony. There are also different types of men. Some are asbolute lugheds while others are spiritual, connected, wordly, open-minded and you actually feel like you can really connect. I am learning a lot. Going to listen to the Interviews cd that came in the mail.
I am being very open-minded. Even though I have had 3 men in the last year, all adoring me like crazy……I am doing somrthing right, but they are just not the right ones. I somehow got sucked into clicking on that ad some time ago, too. Now I keep getting the emails from him. I read them out of some sick fascination, and they sometimes make my blood boil. I ask this, why do women still have to do all the work? Like read his books And men apparently still have the ability to go about life as they please, according to Mr Carter.
To be honest, I feel like the publishing world has manufactured a gender war to ensure demand: Well said, spinsterette! Sorry if that sounded harsh: You put CC down for charging money for his book despite the fact that you are promioting your own book on this site and on amazon?
Are they far too expensive? Are they incredible helpful for women seeking to understand men? Most definitely. This program is NOT going to make you feel better about being single, and it is NOT going to make you feel like you have a firm understanding of human relationships.
What it will do is tell you what men need from women. If men truly need women who are less emotional read: MORE emotionally balanced , then that is really beside the point. We can lament all day how weak and fragile and un-evolved men are. But, as with anything, you must deal with the repercussions of who you are and what you do. An the repercussions might in fact be singledom. As someone who has spent a good deal of money on his programs, I have never regretted it. Where did you get that idea?
They are 2 completely different people, though both are in the dating advice industry. His CDs are excellent and he interviews knowledgeable people who respect women. Never would have had the confidence or drive to keep looking until I found someone I can truly and completely be myself with! All u girls can spend time typing about how much he sucks, while I admire the two dozen long stem roses I got from my new great guy for my birthday.
He offers advice… to both sides. I mean at the deep primal level, not at the evolve and responsible level. I mean the part that create passion, not the part that creates a family. I have a good and loving relationship with my girlfriend. I miss what made me felt love growing in love at the first place. I would like her to be living for herself more. Now I have words to put on it, and I think that he is right in all that way. Now I have the vision that I can work on my relationship to make it better than ever… to make it last for ever.
Just open your mind to new ideas to think about, then read it. Fit what he says to your own situation. Just take what is good. Why do ebooks cost more, anyway? I have to print it up at home too. I have been reading everything online…for free and I will say that Christian Carter hit the nail on the head with some of his information. It was like a light went off in my own head of how I have handled some of my prior relationships poorly.
He is not encouraging women to forget how they were designed, he is helping women to recognize what is driving men away or why a relationship may not be working. We women have to face that most men are NOT as emotional as we are. I have not paid for anything, yet I am fortunate enough to have access to this information online and have appreciated how I have come to the realization that I do need to CHANGE some of my own behavior patterns.
What is wrong with improving oneself? Do you think you are too old to learn? We can all learn. All these women know if they could market advice, they would. Because Christian Carter has done this and what he offers requires us to make some changes within ourselves, some women are wanting to bash him. Go ahead then, ignore it and stay lonely! His advice is to have your own life and to not require a simple phone call from a man to determine that happiness. What is wrong with advice like that?
Again, women coming across as knowing it all…that is why so many of you are still alone. HIs advice can help you in all aspects, not just with men. Suck it up and just try it. Everyone can work on improving themselves. Does anyone know a phone number I can call to get the interview CDs cancelled.
One site had an email address, which I used, asking for cancellation information. No luck yet.
I going to have to go into my bank in another city to cancel the payments. My life is just to hectic. Anybody know how to correct the problem? Hello Guys, Well I too am glad to find this site….
But for me I have to say that this is another page in a great mystery! But honestly I want to know if anyone can summarizes what he says…. What is the deal? Maybe CC really is the devil! I wonder why women trust this guy, where do they know that he really is this professional? I have been trying to unsubscribe now since November The links collapse, the e-mails bounce back and the phone is never answered — I live in the UK!!
Some of the stuff I have read sort of makes sense. I also bought his e-book, but the code number to print it off doesnt work and the customer service link and numbers dont actually link to anything. My bank are now trying to stop payments that are being deducted up to three times a month for WHAT??? I feel I have been really ripped off and it is a complete con, otherwise you would be able to get through to someone. In fact, he says you should set the tone in a relationship right away, and if a man is not on board with you, to move on.
The book was extremely helpful to me—not only was it key in repairing parts of my relationship that were going downhill fast, it also made me feel better about the woman I am. It reminded me to cultivate my own life before the life I had with him, which ultimately made me more attractive and desirable to him, and made me a happier and more fulfilled person.
I think Christian Carter is a sensible and insightful man with valuable information to share. I was just looking for some potential insight before I begin the next relationship. I found some. Their photos are not the same. This is just a slick marketing ploy. What a racket you have going on here… praying on women who are either too stupid or too needy to realize the importance of self respect.
They do not believe that THEY are the problem. So I would communicate to him.. I do all the things that his email speaks of, I have my own life, I have my own hobbies..
Be confident, be happy, get some hobbies and be alone because you are better off than being with someone who 1.
They fret over every date, analyze it to death, and always seem to be crying on the couch over some man. We all know women like this.
May be he wonders if it was the same woman writing it LOL. We all need and want each other at times on a variety of levels, and the mutuality between 2 people is therefore called relationship… they balance each other on the swing of life. They feel the man is always wrong, the man is the problem, the man needs to change.
So when Christian Carter comes along to talk about women empowering themselves and taking steps to become more attractive and repair their relationships, these women cry foul. I only receive his emails and some ideas are very interesting. I even keep trying to remember some his advices as I 47 yo want to understand my beloved man 55 yo more.
Actually my man is telling me that I should be independent, free, having my own life, busy all the time and not relaying on his financial support. He also told me many times he is very tired of women calling him crying help! Yes I love him to death but I do not think he is a grown up man who wants somebody close to him, so I am slowly pulling away but it is so bad feeling as he is a good person and I would love to spend the rest of my life with him… I tried to be like Carter tells with my man and surprisingly he likes me playing that role.
The problem is — it is not me at all! I am soft, loving, funny, unpredictable, very intelligent so I want to be me! I found a lot of the comments posted to be true or contain some half truth.
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Be happy and rejoice in being a woman…Love who you are and be true always to yourself. All else will follow…. There are no rule books for life, love, families we all have to be who we are, if you want advice listen to your gut instinct, its very rarely wrong because it is the essence of what makes each one of us unique, your own inner self.
No one would even be on here, me included if we were still in the throws of blissful love, that time when you dont question, look for answers or listen to anything but your heart. Love just is, analysing is what makes it all go wrong, when it feels right you do it anyway.
Dont believe in anyone but yourself because deep down if we are honest, and thats the hard part, we all know why things didnt work, they just werent meant to. If reading CC helps fantastic but in my opinion at some point we are all loved at the beginning for who we are in that moment in time. We all change and grow, sometimes letting go when your not ready is incredibly painful the more you try and hold it tightly the faster it slips away.
No one has it all, if someone comes into your life and it feels right its because they were attracted to you! The heart will always rule the head, even armed with all the advice in the world when cupids arrow flies. Dont expect love or life to be fair and make sense, there are no answers no matter where you look its called life and no one has it all. Not one of us can help the way we are or wave magic wands. Love yourself how else will anyone love you.
I sent a reply to CC knowing it would not get received, but I needed to write it out anyway,. Can we have a book about fixing men to accommodate women? Is there a manual that teaches men to find something in life other than sex? This is why I am happy being a confimed bachalorette. Two weeks later after he has stopped calling and I realized those awkared silences were supposed to be filled with phone sex. I suspect the calls stopped for other reasons than the one you suspect.
The reason is pretty obvious to anyone reading your post. Just saying…. That actually just made me laugh out loud. I found it very condescending that he blamed women for all of the failure in the relationship. It was so one-sided: He does a great analysis of differences between women and men without resorting to: Here is my take on this whole shebang. I agree with both the women on here as well as with david deAngelos other business i.
Women you are not all at fault. The reason some good guys who may not necessarly be very attractive feel a kind of hatred for some attractive women is because you turn them down for no valid reason. I thing girls should say to any guy that start to talk to them say hi and then ask them hey lets exchange contacts and alwsys keep a spare phone number ready to give out. For instanance when was the last thime you asked a man what he does a living and where would he like to be in the next few years and then tell him about what your doing in your life and how you could help him achieve some of his goals and he could help you acieve some of your goals.
Then set out some activities that you could take part in together. I think women are too much focused on having that perfect guy who is going to show up and love them for everything. I think women should go out and take in all views from both persepectives. Now girls who are taking good care of themselves, physically, emotionally and spritually are the ones I think will do well in the 21st century where there is a shift of power with men and women.
Communicate things that your not happy with with no regret. Ok now you must be saying who is this guy. Well I have been doing my own study in this area of dating and relationship as a man and hence I think my views as a men might help make things a little more clear to everyones benefit.